"Why is it so difficult for us to ask for help? My take on this question is that many times we feel as though we must be "strong", "work through every situation and difficulty on our own", "pull ourselves up by our boot straps, stand tall, head up, chest out". If we don't do these things, then others will think we are failures or not capable of facing the "hand that is dealt us." In fact, this is a very dangerous and prideful way of thinking. Without realizing it, we come across to others as if we don't need them, or want them.
Bottom line, we do need other's help. Whether it is Divine help or human help, when we face difficulties and problems and we become overwhelmed, that is exactly when we need to ask for help.
Actually, "Help Me", are some of Creator God's favorite words to hear coming from His children. It tells Him we understand our weaknesses and trust Him to help us through.
I am learning this lesson every day. When I find myself overwhelmed by something, I am actually learning to lean on Creator more, and on family and friends. It is nothing to be ashamed of to need a helping hand. So, don't buy the lie that to ask for help means we are weak, or useless.
We need each other and there is strength and safety when we reach out."
Peace
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